Easter Memories 2022
My memories of Easter become more poignant the more family
members I lose. My mother made it
special; she made Easter baskets, yes at my request, when I was in my 30s and
in grad school. Mom and Dad used to
drive down to Carbondale,
and we would eat at the Holiday Inn Easter buffet. One year, we found an estate sale being held
in their meeting room. We also found a
flea market open, with a hardcover Mills & Boon (Harlequin) novel I could
use in my thesis.
Mom and I made cookies together, and we had turkey or duck,
occasionally pheasant, if we ate at home.
We usually hit the road; Decatur
one year we visited my great grandmother Clara (Aglaia’s) grave. Mom fell on the uneven round; it was getting
cloudy, and it was spooky. All we heard
was her voice, “Honey!” and Dad had a brief moment where he though YiaYia was
calling for him. We would also go to St. Louis, great times at
Union Station and the Italian restaurant we loved on Lindbergh drive. My parents met through people they both knew
in St. Louis, or as my YiaYia called it, Sandy
Luli, and we would often explore there, or St. Charles.
Another year we went to Hannibal,
to Mark Twain’s home.
Once, we turned and went home; we got as far as the old
Skewer Inn outside Peoria,
and had to get home because the temperature dropped drastically and snow was on
the way. Our little scotty/poodle mix
puppy, Killer, was in the car. We rushed
out to him bearing peaces of shish kebob, still warm. He was shivering, scared. We wrapped him in his red check flannel Blankie,
and he sat in my lap and had his snack while we drove the hour and one half
home.
One monumental year, I flew to Edmonton, riding the plane with the Edmonton
Oilers. We went to The Mall of the Americas, ate terrific
food, saw snow, first time in over a year for me. Shopped, checked out museums, art galleries
and antique stores. I didn’t want to go
back to California,
but back I went.
In San Jose,
Jim, Connie, and I, sometimes had visits from my cousins Steve and Katie. We
ate out, but ate better at home. We had
turkey there, too, and Jim, who was a great baker, made Greek cookies, baklava,
Connie did butter cookies, I chipped in with my recipes from home.
My Easter baskets were legendary; Connie could take a ready
made basket and add wonderful things, wrapping it all in cellophane and
ribbons. Mom looked for sugared diorama
eggs, or I painted eggs, getting ideas from Tasha Tudor’s books on
holidays. We also collected Pysanky
eggs, marble eggs, egg dioramas, Victorian glass eggs, chenille bunnies and
chicks, all kinds of things. In
kindergarten, Mrs. Moser had us make an Easter tree. We spray painted a branch white, and fixed it
into a vintage flower pot. We hung all
sorts of ornaments that we made from egg shells and bits of cotton. I have a whole collection of these now, many
added by my friend Bev C. in San Jose,
who created a magnificent Easter Tree in her office. We all worked with law firms in The Pruneyard
in those days.
My favorite Easter book was Miss Flora McFlimsey’s Easter
Bonnet by Marianna. Beautiful
illustrations about the little doll who didn’t have an Easter Bonnet, but
through the help of friends, got a fantastic chapeau with which to win her
contest.
We took trips to New Salem, to see the Lincoln sites, we cooked, dyed a million
eggs. Uncle Tom would come to us when we
lived in Peoria, and we often took trips to Chicago to shop and eat
at Andy’s Steak House or Henrique’s in Oak Brook. It didn’t matter what we did, just that we
were together.
For Greek Easter, we went to church all week, and I sang in
the choir. Jim took me in hand when he
visited in the early 70s, and we went all over revisiting his friends. We went to visit the other relatives near Champaign, and one year,
sadly went to visit the graves of aunt Leo and Cousin Clara Mae, killed in a
car collision. Also visited their
family.
My husband went with me to the church Services and sang
along Good Friday. We went to the
Anastasi, held at Midnight Easter Saturday. We had snacks and drank chamgapne
later, and brought home flowers.
Now, Easter is just really my husband and me, and another
trip to the cemetery. We still love our
Easter décor, and I made a tree with bunnies and eggs this year. I skipped the Eier or Egg market his year;
too tired nad too much to do. But, I’ll
have an Easter egg give away this Saturday at the museum.
I have so many wonderful memories thanks to my family, and
sometimes, I can still taste the jelly beans, encased in plastic eggs Aunt
Connie would decorate with Liquid paper.
Blessed Easter and Passover to everyone, and Blessed Greek
Easter April 24th. It will be
Easter in Ukraine
April 24th, and I hope everyone there has peace as well.
I send you all a chocolate rabbit and some Peeps good wishes.